For the sake of money:
1. What is his/her monthly in-hand income?
2. Any personal loans that he/she is paying off?
3. On a home loan? How many more years does he/she have to pay off the installments?
4. Is he/she okay if you have a separate bank account?
Okay so far? Moving on. What about the following career issues?
5. How many jobs has he/she switched till date? Any particular reasons for doing so?
6. If he/she gets a job overseas, will he/she take it? What if it doesn’t offer a family status?
Now comes the tricky part. Could these health queries make or break a marriage?
7. Will he/she take an HIV test with your family doctor?
… and these behavioural pointers:
8. Does he/she get violent when angry?
Here’s another tricky part, sexual preferences. Not THAT necessary, but useful, nonetheless:
9. Is he/she into deviant sexual practices?
And last but not the least, these social queries will give you a better idea about your future life with him/her:
10. Are the both of you going to live with the parents or separately?
As a footnote, I would like to add, I had written this piece on a site dedicated to women; so it is like a finger pointed at men/prospective grooms. But in this day and age, it is imperative for both prospective partners to know as much as they can about their partners

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